Dania was the midwife for all three of my pregnancies. She was there for my first pregnancy when we miscarried and for my subsequent two healthy homebirths.
When I was pregnant with my first, I got a clear direction inside of me to choose Dania. I really believe my children chose Dania to help guide their way to birth. One of the most important choices you can make for your childbearing year is who you want to stand by your side through each phase that unfolds in the journey of growing a child and becoming a parent. Dania’s has an unwavering faith in not only pregnancy and birth; a mother and a child’s body; but she also has a deep faith in life itself. It was this faith that helped reassure my worries, that helped calm my mental chatter when my mind would veer off. During labor, Dania (and her assistants), were exactly what I needed. I loved labouring in the quietness, without chatter, without distraction, and even without verbal ques or direction of what I “needed” or “could” be doing. Each time I was left to labor in my own cacoon of sound and movement. With this space, I was able to enter such a sacred stillness where the rest of the world seemed quite as I was moving mountains. Also with this mindful space that was given to me, my partner and I really got to connect, and he had the space to step into the role of my support person fully.
With the (most recent) birth of my daughter Anu, Dania reminded me, while I was pushing, of my hope to catch my baby. Having my hand on her head as she was being born was a radical shift for my body’s ability to connect with pushing and to connect with the experience of her being born from my womb to the outer world. I hesitate to put one word to how that felt, it was deeply spiritual to make that connection with my child as she was being born, and to make that connection with myself and my body. I felt my power. I felt my strength. I hope every mother can be reminded, or guided, to connect with their baby in this way of receiving their baby into their hands.
Thank you Dania for being there for me and my family, for all the little and big moments.
-Cara S.